How to be happily imperfect!

6 Feb

I am not perfect but I can’t be happier about it….ok ok I have to admit with all the modesty I am capable of, I am pretty close to being perfect…wink … and you know what, I love that little flab I have on my belly; I do, at least twice a year… I swear, the rest of the time I work to get rid of it!!!! I love that I am only 5’5, what would I do if I’d be as tall as Gisele Bündchen, or if I’d be her, posing all day in ridiculous positions, wearing tiny clothes, lips apart, eyes staring at the camera, trying to be sexy and what the hell would I do with all that money, it would give me headaches, it would!!! Nooo, I am happy to be ME!!!! I really am! And besides, every time I try to strike a pose, and believe me sometimes I do get this urge inside, I look like someone put a gun on my head forcing me to smile, have a look:
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Last time when I really tried to get a diva pose, yes deep down inside I am a fashionista, more fash… than …ista though, all I could do was this:
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Besides the fact that I look like a vampire sucked all my blood out, I was actually really sucked by three different species of flabby arthropods, so I ended up with half of my skin on one leg looking like Joan Rivers’s face when she tries to close her mouth and eyes in the same time, no thanks!!! Not for me!
I mean this impossible good looking models from all the glossy ( I hate this word I do) magazines, tiny waist, skinny as a rack but huge boobs most of the time…. let me tell you a secret….they are impossible because they are not REAL!!! They did not grow on Earth they grew in Photoshop, the boobs I mean… They look so remotely human that sometimes I doubt they ever shit or sweat! I have no doubts they do NOT eat!!!
I am all for good healthy looking and making efforts for it! But come on, boobs don’t grow bigger as you get skinnier; your skin doesn’t get more glowing as you grow old, you don’t get a perfect body by having more kids!!!
This standards are ridiculous and… really funny, but who needs them anyway, I don’t because in a childish exercise let me tell you this:
beautiful people heart

So tell me, what do you need to find in people to consider them beautiful?

125 Responses to “How to be happily imperfect!”

  1. gracieprescott March 4, 2013 at 12:25 am #

    What a fabulous write-up!! Your list of what makes people beautiful is awesome! I would love to share it with a friend. May I?

    • H! March 4, 2013 at 6:26 am #

      Thank you! Absolutely, you can share it!🙂

  2. dbubble12 March 4, 2013 at 8:24 pm #

    I find confident, odd, witty, charismatic people beautiful. Sorry, I’ve never been good with giving straight answers. I love how real, funny and versatile your blog is. Thank you for liking a post of mine at bubblemomentpages. I’m looking forward to digging through yours more.

    • H! March 4, 2013 at 8:35 pm #

      Thanks&love!

  3. Creative Resources, Bangladesh March 7, 2013 at 12:00 am #

    Reblogged this on Creative Resources, Bangladesh and commented:
    I’m glad to share this post from the blog, ‘Fun Girls Live Better’. The name itself was alluring. But I must mention that in the past I’ve been deceived many times. As usual, I wasn’t sure what this blog will portray as Fun Girl or a Better Living. I had a number of imaginations both ways. But, I certainly wasn’t6 expecting what I found. IFrom my personal perspective, that’s what I call a fun girl. N the wisdom she shared or the life she portrayed, I call it, ‘Simple living, high thinking’. To me that’s the best living. Amazingly, she used very simple English to express herself, yet the statements are bold enough to be compared with blogs that we call LITERATURE. Well, I don’t have any complains with literature, but I’ve always loved reading paperbacks where the excpressions are made in plain & simple English. So, it’s my pleasure to share the blog of a fun girl about her way of better living. Cheers to her wisdom.

    • H! March 7, 2013 at 6:20 pm #

      Heyyyy…. I am actually well impresses with your comment and thank you very much!!! I could use this as my description in “about” because you really actually did put in words exactly what I am and what I wanted to convey in my blog!!! AMAZING!!! I loved how you noticed that I try to keep it simple yet having nothing to do with lack of thinking!!! Simple living, high thinking so well said!!! Thank you one more time, I am flattered and humbled, you are a very wise person! Thanks&love!!

  4. Lisa Kristinardottir March 14, 2013 at 5:46 pm #

    Reblogged this on Lisaiceland.com and commented:
    This is an AWESOME POST IMHO!

    • H! March 14, 2013 at 9:35 pm #

      Thank you very much, Lisa! Hugs!!!

  5. Varsha March 17, 2013 at 5:21 am #

    Lovely one again!

    • H! March 17, 2013 at 8:22 am #

      Thank you!

  6. kalonlucia March 18, 2013 at 7:54 pm #

    And yet this post is… perfect!!!

    Thank you for liking my first post, so happy that it led me to discover your blog! You’ve now affirmed that this new bloggin’ adventure is gonna be a great time😉

    Much Mahalo!

    • H! March 18, 2013 at 8:12 pm #

      Thank you… and wellcome here, I really hope you will have fun and enjoy your “blogging adventure” … Good luck and hugs!!

  7. tremonta March 22, 2013 at 3:18 am #

    a sense of humour which you defiantly have. thanks for the giggles!

    • H! March 23, 2013 at 8:16 pm #

      🙂 Thank you!!!

  8. Vivek March 23, 2013 at 6:15 pm #

    Loved the seven lines on beautiful people🙂
    For me beautiful people have wit, not the perfect figure.

    • H! March 23, 2013 at 8:24 pm #

      Thank you!!!🙂

  9. Jonathan Caswell March 24, 2013 at 1:35 pm #

    Reblogged this on By the Mighty Mumford and commented:
    I’LL BET HER HUSBAND IS HAPPY!–Jonathan

  10. Jonathan Caswell March 24, 2013 at 1:37 pm #

    You look just great to me…and your hubby must think so, too. Long as he can catch you once in a while! From one imperfect blogger to another—-THANKS!

    • H! March 24, 2013 at 2:02 pm #

      Jonathan thank you very much!!! It’s good to be imperfect…:)

  11. badratool April 12, 2013 at 8:59 am #

    Yeah youre totally right. Just live youre life for yourself the way you see it and not others, and you will always live happy.

  12. indicator of interest April 30, 2013 at 11:12 pm #

    I really like your blog.. very nice colors & theme. Did you
    design this website yourself or did you hire someone
    to do it for you? Plz answer back as I’m looking to create my own blog and would like to find out where u got this from. appreciate it

    • H! May 1, 2013 at 6:34 pm #

      I did design it myself, and with what wordpress offers it’s really easy, there are a lot of themes you can choose from, and really easy to use…. go for it and GOOD LUCK!🙂

  13. grow taller after age 18 June 15, 2013 at 9:43 am #

    Wow that was strange. I just wrote an incredibly long comment but after I clicked submit
    my comment didn’t show up. Grrrr… well I’m not writing all
    that over again. Regardless, just wanted to
    say great blog!

    • H! June 15, 2013 at 4:53 pm #

      :)) I understand the feeling, thanks for still trying to write something!🙂

  14. Alla July 21, 2013 at 9:31 am #

    This is just the pefcret answer for all forum members

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