How to be a successful person – the modern way!!!

24 Mar

selfish or giving
First of all you need to understand the importance of … YOURSELF! Because who is more important than YOU? What is more important than your satisfied pleasures and wishes???

You come first and whoever doesn’t like it can might as well disappear, die, hide, not been born!!! And whoever doesn’t live to please you, whoever doesn’t make you feel good, they’re not worth it, not worth it of your attention! To hell with them, you were born to be loved and pleased no matter what you do!

Damn the universe, damn the whole world, if you want something you can get it, and you must get it NOW!!!

And come on…. if they really not pleasing you, you can always go to your mom’s drawer and grab a few automatic weapons and kill the losers, as they don’t deserve to live in this world that was created to please you!!!

And let’s say you surrounded yourself with the right people (as explained above) do not stop there, just please do not stop, climb your way to a better and more successful person you have inside, because you are WORTH it, isn’t that everyone’s being telling you since you were born?

Don’t lie to yourself, just go by if it feels good for you, it must be right because you can never go wrong when it feels right, your needs and desires have to be satisfied first and foremost!
Remember your fulfilment and your own happiness matters more than the lives around you, ALL the time!!!

And do never forgive or forget if someone is making a mistake, especially if that is affecting you in any way, that’s only for weak and not successful people, not for you!!!

And who doesn’t want to be successful???
Yes dear people we want to be successful!!!
And maybe we are because:
live your life

But dear modern and successful people, maybe sometimes we should forget about success and remember to spend more time with the people we love, because they won’t be there forever, maybe we should remember to say something nice to the people around us, and sometimes we should remember to hug the person next to us because this is the only treasure you can offer with your heart and it does not cost a thing!

And maybe we should find ways to love more, to talk, to hug, to share!

Because maybe that is what being really succesful is!!

offering flower

54 Responses to “How to be a successful person – the modern way!!!”

  1. Jennifer March 24, 2013 at 2:33 pm #

    Absolutely. Nothing can MAKE you happy. Just be happy. Or better yet, just Be.

  2. Austin March 24, 2013 at 2:34 pm #

    I’d be scared if my mother kept automatic weapons in her drawers. Other than that, great post!🙂

    • H! March 24, 2013 at 4:55 pm #

      Ha ha ha I’d be scared if your mother kept automatic weapons in her drawers too Austin!!!😉

      • Austin March 24, 2013 at 4:56 pm #

        I’m glad we’re in agreement on that one! It’s settled then.

  3. jonathanhilton March 24, 2013 at 2:38 pm #

    Great job! Love this and I think your tone is right on! Very insightful and thought provoking. I think that you must have hit on the definition of successful.🙂

  4. bgddyjim March 24, 2013 at 2:43 pm #

    Technically you can’t go to your mom’s dresser to get an “automatic”. Those require permitting that is far too difficult or expensive for most Americans to attain. You’re thinking of ‘semi-automatic’. Also important to the discussion is the ‘gun free zone’… Many law enforcement officers have a nickname for them: Criminal Enterprise Zones. 😉

  5. bgddyjim March 24, 2013 at 2:46 pm #

    Oh, otherwise a fantastic post – even if it didn’t much apply to me… 😉

  6. GetWithTheProgramPpl March 24, 2013 at 2:46 pm #

    Phew! Got me worried there and almost went to click on the unfollow button!! Haha. Sorry for almost losing the faith…:-) Great post.

    • H! March 24, 2013 at 4:55 pm #

      Never lose the faith🙂 Thank you!

  7. duncanr March 24, 2013 at 2:53 pm #

    more hugs sounds good to me😉

  8. Tambourinequeen March 24, 2013 at 3:09 pm #

    I really suck this!!! I do try and live my own way but i fail…..

    • H! March 24, 2013 at 4:56 pm #

      Who says you fail?

  9. Tambourinequeen March 24, 2013 at 3:12 pm #

    I’m trying to type a comment but I took an Ambien 20 minutes ago And I think I’m getting loopy. I really did have a point to this post but I was going to say it but I forgot it now

    • H! March 24, 2013 at 4:56 pm #

      No worries. A hug from me!!!🙂

  10. flash11in March 24, 2013 at 3:51 pm #

    nice post…

    • H! March 24, 2013 at 4:57 pm #


  11. day3of March 24, 2013 at 4:17 pm #

    I think I may have found a hero in you (please excuse the masculine, didn’t want to think about heroin(e). Someone I care for is addicted to methadone because of that.) When I first read you, I wasn’t sure how meaningful your writing would be to people like myself who worry a lot for the sake of all future generations of human beings on the planet Earth, regardless of race or religion. We all need to be ready to act on humanity’s behalf, even if we have fun in the meantime and all along the way. Thank you for taking fun to the point of inspiration and vice versa.🙂

    • H! March 24, 2013 at 5:22 pm #

      Aww, I am no hero, but thank you for your nice thoughts!🙂 I do believe that important and meaningful subjects do not necesarily have to be aproach in a very serious manner! We can have fun, have meaningful and good lives, and inspire others all in the same time! Hugs!!!

      • day3of March 24, 2013 at 5:50 pm #

        I’m glad you exist. I happen to be striving for the fun part myself.😉 Hugs and happiness🙂 !

  12. atlanticcus March 24, 2013 at 4:49 pm #

    I love you !!!!! Im not successful yet though… might even be a loser a lil bit…. but can u excuse me at least today? Hugs … very warm hugs

    • H! March 24, 2013 at 5:17 pm #

      Ohhh very warm hugs back!!! And thanks for the nice words!!!🙂

  13. Jerry March 24, 2013 at 5:37 pm #

    I agree 1000%. However, it’s a mountain to climb when people, (the thing I love most) cause me more grief than happiness. Thank H!😉

  14. victorianeedstoeat March 24, 2013 at 6:13 pm #

    Brilliant feel goods for my Monday morning🙂. Thanks!

    • H! March 24, 2013 at 9:00 pm #

      Thank you🙂

  15. pickledsparklymooseprincess March 24, 2013 at 6:31 pm #

    What an adorable post. What about this kind of attitude leaving you open to criticism of being selfish?

    • H! March 24, 2013 at 9:02 pm #

      🙂 Thank you!

  16. ipogonowski March 24, 2013 at 8:47 pm #

    Really nice reminder on life at it’s finest! Love the poem who’s it by?

  17. Eagle Tech March 24, 2013 at 9:02 pm #

    I just love this. A lot of us do need think of ourselves more, but at the same time do it in a way that’s kind and giving. Still, I like the part that says mean people aren’t worth dwelling upon. They aren’t. We should let them slide off like water off a duck’s back. Then go home and appreciate our loved ones.

  18. goalfetch March 25, 2013 at 1:20 pm #

    Honestly I think everyone wants to be successful, but how many people really know what they ultimately want in life. If you are one of them, congratulations. You may be one in a million.

    Reading your blog gave me reassurance about pursuing my dreams, so what if it seems crazy to your friends or family, so what if I may not succeed. The worst thing I can do right now is lie to myself that I am happy with what I’m doing right now because the truth is, I’d much rather leave it all behind and make my dream a reality. Nothing else matters. Cheers!

    • H! March 25, 2013 at 8:09 pm #

      I am really glad to hear this, you should always pursue your dreams, because as you said in the end nothing else matters!!! Be brave… Hugs!!!

  19. museconfuse March 25, 2013 at 5:45 pm #

    Agreed, you need to grab the opportunity and make it work. Mean people really shouldn’t be worth our time..but it’s tough sometimes to not let what they say affect us. We just have to keep reminding ourselves that they aren’t worth anything to us!

  20. terrytrekker March 25, 2013 at 6:03 pm #

    Please keep up the blogging! It is always an inspiration to read your posts! I get vitalized! I even went out and bought new running shoes for the spring!

    • H! March 25, 2013 at 8:11 pm #

      Aww thank you so much, I am glad to hear this!!! Happy running!!!🙂

    • H! March 25, 2013 at 8:11 pm #

      Aww thank you so much, I am glad to hear this!!! Happy running!!!🙂

  21. Jay March 25, 2013 at 7:48 pm #

    sometimes one is set up to fail by others…

  22. Robyn Michele Levy March 25, 2013 at 8:23 pm #

    Love is usually the answer.

  23. sonworshiper March 26, 2013 at 6:16 pm #

    Ouch! Convicting but true all too often. Well put.

    • H! March 26, 2013 at 7:16 pm #

      Thank you!🙂

  24. cariwiese March 26, 2013 at 11:59 pm #

    We are a group of people trending toward total community. We go to classes to exercise. Almost no one just goes for a run by themselves anymore. The teenagers are putting every single thought they have on Facebook (I found my pencil, omg!). Life is becoming more about the group and less about the individual within it. Sometimes it’s nice to be reminded that it’s okay to be by yourself, to be an individual, and to just be. Thanks for that! And thank you for visiting my blog!

  25. arilab March 27, 2013 at 8:08 pm #

    Great post!

  26. AaronDavid March 27, 2013 at 10:03 pm #

    Amen sister.

  27. Insight March 28, 2013 at 2:35 pm #

    Wow! This is such an inspiratinal piece of share. Thank ya so much, Bravo gal.🙂


    • H! March 28, 2013 at 3:02 pm #

      Thank you Rahul!🙂

      • Insight March 28, 2013 at 3:04 pm #

        You are most welcome! Have a great time there. God bless. Cheers.\m/🙂


  28. lynnwyvill March 28, 2013 at 7:47 pm #

    Love this post! Thanks for stopping by my blog and the “like.”

  29. phoxis April 2, 2013 at 12:44 pm #

    I believe we live to feel and to interact with other entities🙂 . Great pos!

    • H! April 2, 2013 at 1:49 pm #

      Thank you!🙂

  30. missadventure77 April 8, 2013 at 9:39 pm #

    Agree, agree, agree! Other than the weapons bit, obviously…success is all very well, but if there’s nobody to be proud of you who really matters its a bit pointless…

  31. janalinesmalman April 22, 2013 at 1:58 pm #

    You have a very interesting blog, I have enjoyed reading some of your posts! Thanks for visiting my journey, it means a lot! I will be on the look out for your next post!

    • H! April 22, 2013 at 6:39 pm #

      Thank you!🙂


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