Breaking up!

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That’s it, I had enough, I am done, I am sick and tired of this toxic relationship I have, I have finished my unfinished business with you my dear PAST and I am breaking up with you my dear FUTURE! Good-bye, and NO, we cannot still be friends!
It’s you, not me…I mean it’s me, not you… hmmm. So I’d like to help you out. Now which way did you come in?

And yes I’m taking her with me, I AM, my mind is coming with me, no discussions about it!!

But my dear past I’m leaving you all my sorrows, and you can keep my regrets as well, you can even have my fears and nostalgia!

MR. Past I am also happy to leave you my mistakes, you can have them all, and keep them forever, I will only take memories, but don’t be upset if I won’t dwell on them … and even from that you can keep some!

As for you Mr. Future you were never there for me, but always promise to come, so I’m giving you all my expectations, and projections, I’m giving you my hopes, you can have all my plans, and my anxiety, and we are not friends anymore!

I have to break off. I’ve been seeing someone else and they told me I had to choose, so I’d like you to meet PRESENT…. your replacement!

I am in love with the Present and this is where I want to be and I take my mind with me, and my life is going to happen there as well!! And I vow to live fully in each moment because it will never happen ever again, never, never in all infinity, and I’ll love myself in it, in the very moment, and I will be the moment !

My days will not anymore be a bridge from the past to a “better” future, no more running from yesterday to tomorrow, no more crying for the vast past, no more fear for the infinite future!

Just here, just now, without understanding, without analyzing, without waiting for something else …just synchronizing my soul with life, and listening to her wonderful tune!!

The smell of my fresh washed hair, the taste of coffee in this morning, my husband kiss, now that’s life, and is amazing and it feels very, very good!
Much better than any promised future, and much better than any gone past!

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155 thoughts on “Breaking up!

  1. ShilpiRajput says:

    Life never ceases to happen, with or without anyone its just that with some you make things better for yourself and without some you still need try to make things better for your own self.

  2. 2sistersoneblog says:

    That`s how it is, the small things/moments in life are the most precious ones. Seize and live everyday as if it was your last, and the only way of doing it is by being present. I love how you put it down in writing:):) xoxo Besa

  3. Anonymous says:

    Wat a wonderful, amusing, thought-provoking post!!! Loved it and am truly inspired! My past and future compete with my attention constantly….it’s so hard to choose “Mr. Present” all the time, but I know it’s the right choice and so worth the work!! Thanks for making it look so easy!

  4. joedalio says:

    This is classic! I love the analogy you present. We must be thinking along the same lines today, because I just wrote a post on the same topic. I don’t think I presented as well as you though : )

  5. dirtyterry says:

    Wow, I couldn’t stop reading this one when I started. Good job, good writing, good topic; staying positive is key. 🙂

  6. ramblingsofabipolarwoman says:

    Love it! I couldn’t agree with you more! 🙂 The past is just that, the past. The future hasn’t happened yet, so why stress on it, ya know? Many of us are too consumed on either that we forget to live NOW, SO LOVE this post! 🙂

  7. Anonymous says:

    Awesome post! Leaving the past in the past allows the present to create a space for contribution to the world! Thank you for fully expressing yourself to us today!

  8. lcvspc says:

    I adore this.
    Such a good analogy, comparing moving on from the past and not allowing yourself to focus on what may happen in the future to ending dysfunctional relationships.

    More people need to take this present time focused approach to life, all we have is now after all.

  9. jessamorena says:

    I ABSOLUTELY LOVED THIS! I just ended things with this guy. We decided that we were still going to see each other and then he just cuts off all communication with me. Bull I know.. BUT

    This post just made me smile and made me think “You know what…. I’m leaving you for Mr. Present”

    Thank you lol

  10. Lina says:

    “My days will not anymore be a bridge from the past to a “better” future, no more running from yesterday to tomorrow, no more crying for the vast past, no more fear for the infinite future!” Beautiful.

  11. Dianne Aquino says:

    I am so grateful to read this as soon as i wake up! Yes, (my favorite line)” MR. Past I am also happy to leave you my mistakes, you can have them all, and keep them forever… “Forever!!! 🙂

  12. Dianne Aquino says:

    Reblogged this on Dianne Creates and commented:
    Grateful to read this as soon as I wake up… 🙂

    “My days will not anymore be a bridge from the past to a “better” future, no more running from yesterday to tomorrow, no more crying for the vast past, no more fear for the infinite future!”

  13. writingthebody says:

    Ah I don’t know…not that I want to contradict all this – and I am pretty messed up as you know…all the same, the past makes us what we are, and our present is always directed to some future, even if it is in 5 minutes time. Is there even any such thing as the present….or, more to the point if that were all there was, we would be utterly insensate. I do look at my cat sometimes in the garden and think, that is it, zen.

    Then again, we can be drowned by our past, and forget to appreciate when our futures materialise….perhaps that is what you meant. Anyway, I say all this not to contradict you, really not. I send you a hug!

    1. H! says:

      Ahh it’s nothing wrong with contradicting, I don’t have the absolute truth, I am just sharing my observations and thinking here, and I hope some people will contradict, otherwise would be boring if we all think the same, so thank you for your honest thoughts!!! Hug back!!! 🙂

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